The Lovable Idiot Podcast: Fired Up

Episode-24-Disruptive Impact: Do you have to be likable to be a good leader?

Will Schmierer Season 1 Episode 24

In this Disruptive Impact Episode, I start off by apologizing for the poor audio quality in Tuesday's episode apparently some things got off track over the summer but I think everything is back in order! The focus on this episode is do you have to be likable to be a good leader? That is dependent on so many factors, however to keep it simple I think the answer when you think about the question further is absolutely. Here are my thoughts on why and I pose the question to listeners what do you think about it from another perspective how does it resonate for you?

This came up again recently in conversation and somebody asked a really poignant question that I hadn’t thought about previously. Have you ever had or worked for or alongside of a leader you didn’t like? If you didn’t like the person where are you doing your best work or were you truly engaged and inspired?

I thought it was a great question and it really got me thinking a little bit differently about my previous lens.(initially likability didn’t resonate with me as much as I realized later)

You may not like every decision somebody makes, there are times unexpected and unforeseen things happen in life. Every leader along the way is likely to make a mistake or say something out of character so you have to look at the overall body of work in my opinion! 

When I reframed what likability meant to me, my initial stance changed, but more importantly I think it evolved with more careful consideration and a little bit of different thinking or perspective shifting.

Think about your own experiences and when have you been at your best working for yourself or alongside another team or group or leader, did you feel:

✨Motivated 

✨Inspired

✨Respected

✨Positively Impacted 

✨Autonomy

✨Provided a safe environment to fail and learn and grow?

✨Were Trust,Transparency, and Integrity were valued and present?

✨Did you feel heard?

Sometimes we can overcome bad bosses, but typically that is short-lived and not a viable long-term solution, not to mention a burden to our mental and physical health!

This is by no stretch a comprehensive list of traits or qualities of great leaders, just merely some thoughts to get you thinking? Curious to hear your thoughts and if you have ever had a particular stance on something and then changed your mind over time?

The more I thought about this question from this perspective, truth is I do think the best leaders have a lot (and are a

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